Continuing from last week below are more tips on how to reach your goals!
5. They seek expert help when they face challenges
Seeking out expert guidance and advice makes a major impact on achieving your goals. Seeking outside help takes several forms. For example, a young George Washington developed relationships with powerful people in colonial Virginia to launch his career. Your relationships and network can play an important role in supporting your goal achievement.
In addition to your personal network, there are other resources you can access to reach your goals. For example, if you need to learn more technical skills to get the type of job you want, you can take a course in programming or earn a certification.
6. They are thoughtful about sharing their goals
Successful people understand that their goals say a lot about their interests, desires and challenges. Given that reality, they are selective in how they share their goals. For example, a successful person may share their business goals in the context of a mastermind meeting where they can receive helpful comments and advice from other highly motivated people. In contrast, a successful person building a side hustle is unlikely to mention that activity at their corporate day job.
When in doubt, do not share your goals as you are working on them.
7. They seek inspiration to get through tough times
Disappointments and challenges are part of the picture when you work on challenging goals. Fortunately, many other successful people have sought outside inspiration to get through tough times. Strategist Ryan Holiday has found much practical help and insight from studying Stoic works such as The Meditations by Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius.
Tip: To sustain your motivation in the face of challenges, develop your self-knowledge with personality analysis tools such as the DISC Profile.
8. They are not perfectionists in their goals
In certain circumstances, it makes sense to adjust your goals. You may adjust the deadline on a goal. I have done this myself in 2015. In my case, I adjusted the exam date for a professional exam because my studies and self-assessment tests indicated that I had to study further. You may also need to abandon goals (or put them on hold) if you suffer a serious illness.
Remember your goals are the vehicle on the path to success. Sometimes you have to leave a goal behind if it is simply not working for you.
9. They celebrate goal achievements!
One of life’s great pleasures is to celebrate achieving a goal. Many of us have the experience of celebrating graduation days and earning degrees. Here is journalist Minda Zetlin, writing in Inc Magazine about several ways to celebrate success at work. You can give yourself a day off or you may decide to issue a press release for a major corporate success. Zetlin also suggests reflecting on how far you have come (e.g. “a year ago, I had never run for more than five minutes and today I finished my marathon race!”)
Article by Bruce Harpham, Lifehack